Pamela Anderson reveals her new ‘love affair’ is not what you think

Pamela Anderson has always been a master of reinvention, whether it’s her iconic transformation into a ’90s pop culture sensation or her evolving roles in both Hollywood and activism. But on a recent episode of The Drew Barrymore Show, Anderson took on a new identity-one that speaks to the modern woman’s view on relationships, independence, and self-love. As she sat down with Drew Barrymore, the two shared a candid conversation about singlehood, but it was Anderson’s playful response that had everyone talking.

At 57, Anderson’s love life has been a topic of intrigue for decades, from her high-profile marriage to Tommy Lee to her string of whirlwind weddings that followed. Yet, when Barrymore asked the Baywatch star if she’s currently single, Anderson hesitated, laughing as she described her status as “variations of single.” It was a moment that perfectly encapsulated how fluid and undefinable relationships can be for someone who’s lived a life in the public eye.

Barrymore, too, shared her own thoughts on singlehood, revealing that she’s been unattached for seven years. The talk show host discussed the pressure society places on women to be in relationships, noting how some people seem to find extended periods of singleness strange. For Barrymore, though, it’s been empowering. Anderson echoed that sentiment but shifted the conversation away from relationships altogether, focusing instead on the romance she’s cultivating with herself.

Pamela Anderson’s new romance?
That’s where Anderson’s real message came through. “I’m not even thinking about [relationships] right now,” she confessed, turning the spotlight to her latest projects, including a cookbook titled I Love You. “I’m just thinking about this whole love affair I’m having with life and myself,” she added. For Anderson, learning to love herself again is what’s been paramount, something she believes will make her a better partner if love comes knocking again in the future.

Pamela Anderson is inspiring women, including Drew Barrymore and Valerie Bertinelli, to embrace their natural, makeup-free faces. pic.twitter.com/69s4C749dI

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Pamela’s love life has always been a whirlwind, starting with her infamous marriage to Mötley Crüe’s Tommy Lee in 1995, which led to the birth of her two sons, Brandon and Dylan. The couple’s tumultuous relationship ended in 1998, but that didn’t slow Anderson down. In 2006, she married rocker Kid Rock, though their union lasted just a year.

What followed was another high-profile marriage, this time to poker player Rick Salomon. Their on-again, off-again relationship spanned two separate marriages, from 2007 to 2008, and again from 2014 to 2015. Her most recent marriage, to bodyguard Dan Hayhurst in 2020, ended quietly in 2022, marking the end of Anderson’s traditional romantic entanglements-at least for now.

Pamela Anderson’s solo revolution: Single, makeup-free, and loving it
But Anderson doesn’t seem fazed by her complicated romantic history. In fact, she’s redefining what being “single” means to her, not as a time of loneliness, but as an opportunity for self-discovery. “I’m getting to know myself,” she told Barrymore, highlighting a sentiment that resonates with women navigating life on their own terms.

No programa de hoje a Drew Barrymore levou a Pamela Anderson pra falar sobre o movimento do “makeup free”. Elas fizeram o programa sem maquiagem e até o megahair chegou a tirar em um momento. pic.twitter.com/2CY8Vcn2xF

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Anderson’s reinvention isn’t limited to her personal life. She’s embracing her natural beauty, having famously ditched makeup in recent months-a decision that’s inspired many, including Barrymore, to go makeup-free on her show in solidarity. The conversation, which included guests like Valerie Bertinelli and Gayle King, explored how women in the spotlight deal with aging and beauty standards, with Anderson leading the charge in challenging conventional norms.

By embracing this “variation” of singlehood and focusing on her self-love journey, Pamela Anderson is sending a message loud and clear: being single isn’t a status-it’s a state of mind. And in true Pamela fashion, she’s doing it with grace, confidence, and a dash of humor